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Solve : How's it going with your girls/boys?? |
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Answer» Yeah, I thought while TYPING a comment in another topic: hey, this could be quite an interesting subject to talk about. The reason why I made this topic. Feel free to discuss about your love lives and the stuff that involves it. To get the thing started, I'll copy my comment from the other topic into here. E --@ Aegis: that's EXACTLY what i'm planning to do. Right now, I am attempting to ask her out on a date. You know, just to get to know eachother better. @ Street1: If I'd only know what you mean with that proverb, I'd follow your advice. EmielEmiel...I mean you are only half way from one another.Quote from: street1 on May 29, 2008, 02:39:36 AM Emiel...I mean you are only half way from one another.Thanks man, that really helps. The thing is: I need to be careful with my next move. I tried to ask her out for a date several times in a row, but to continue asking could annoy her. I think i'm going to take things easy for a while. Back to the beginning (which was 1 week ago ). I really don't want to mess this up, because I'm having a very good feeling about this one. So, that's why i'm playing in ''safe mode''. Maybe, if things work out, she can stay at my place a couple of nights. That's something we're considering once we know eachother better. Emiel Agreed but, looking at your age that would be a careful proposition. Your education and college is in your head,not your trousers.Remember that. Patience is a virtue. Quote from: street1 on May 29, 2008, 03:20:40 AM Agreed but, looking at your age that would be a careful proposition.It's not what you think, I don't want her for the s-e-x. It's that I love her, and I want us to have a good time together. But you're right, I should also concentrate on my education (I'm typing this while being at school, how ironic is that ). Although it's going to be tough since Sharona's (that's her name) is constantly in my mind, it's so hard to stop thinking about her. CD, i agree with you, patience is a virtue. I'll just relax and see how things will work out. As I said, I really don't want to mess this up, so having patience is the most important thing. Emiel p.s.: I really appreciate all your help guys, I'm really having the feeling I can be open and honest here. A world of loness is a painful one. The joy of being with someone you care for can make you forget. No longer bond by earthly posestions. Why I exist I used to ask myself then I found out. There are others now that saved me from myself. There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to TELL his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a PHYSICAL one. Remember that friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.' So remember when things are bad someone is there. Word of advice.I'm speechless. Seriously, this is truly something I will remember. I think everyone can learn a lesson from this. Friends should be treated like they are priceless jewels. But that's only logical. EmielI should think about changing this topic's name. It's getting a bit inappropriate. EmielHow so???Quote from: squall_01 on May 30, 2008, 04:12:16 AM How so???'Cuz it's only going about me, while it should be going about all of us. XD EmielWell for some reason they think that, surprisely about a week before I made the first post here, I had gottin back together with my ex. |
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